Gender Identity

Beginning to explore your gender identity can be a challenging and frightening prospect. I am passionate about working with members of the trans/non-binary community and continue my education regarding these issues through continuing education classes, reading scholarly documents, and connections with others within the community. Our work together can and will address many issues, however I will never assume that the issues that brought you to therapy are only rooted in your gender identity.

In addition to my educational knowledge, my personal experience dealing with my own gender identity is what has informed both my passion and my ability to help others navigate this sensitive, difficult, and deeply personal issue.

As a non-binary therapist and person, I find gender exploration exciting to work with. While it can feel confusing at times, exploring your gender identity can often lead to affirming and hopeful discoveries and changes. Throughout this process, I can act as a listener and guide to help you navigate dysphoria to get to a place of euphoria.

I help clients explore their gender and sexual identities. I work with folks who are navigating understanding themselves, expressing themselves to the outside world, coming out to others, transitioning, and de-transitioning too. I am comfortable supporting individuals who are on the spectrum of sexuality, including asexual, polyamorous, and kinky.

I am a transgender person with experience helping clients work through gender exploration in all of its splendor, beauty, and possibilities for growth. As clients learn about themselves and their relationship with the world, they find new ways to be their genuine selves.

In working on Gender Identity issues, one must remember you are the expert on your experience. As a gender therapist, I recognize my function is not to challenge who you are, but to help you be your authentic self and to assist you as you navigate systems with roadblocks others may have placed.

I am non-binary and GNC and work with clients with all gender identities. Be it exploring transitioning, working through relationship changes related to gender, or simply diversifying your understanding of yourself and your gender identities, my office is a space for exploration and experimentation.

To me, the search for identity is a constructive process. I aim to provide a safe and creative space to try on different aspects of gender and identity. We can process through potential conflicts, navigate resources that might help you in your journey, and celebrate gender/identity euphoria when we find something that fits just right.

Trans-affirming and experienced in helping clients explore their gender identity, writing letters in accordance with WPATH standards and collaborating with trans-affirming physicians

I specialize in working with transgender, non-binary, gender fluid, gender queer and agender youth and adults. I provide support to clients, families and partners around transition and gender exploration. I also provide consultation to mental health providers on being a gender affirming therapist.

With a binary that is pervasively perpetuated we may sometimes feel like we don’t belong; this can negatively impact our mental health. Together we can confront & overcome some of the experiences & additional barriers/components that uniquely come with Trans & Non-Binary identities such as: Dysphoria. Body Dysmorphia, transitioning, seeking medical treatments, the "Second Coming Out,” as a continuous experience, exploring relationships, creating support networks, etc.

When you were born, your caregivers probably assumed that you would follow a binary, cisgender, heteronormative path. For you to recognize that your path is different takes introspection, self-reflection, courage, and social support. Transitioning into your most authentic self an be a lifelong process. I can provide support, encouragement, and expertise as you navigate changes in your relationship to yourself and others.

Exploring the influence of the gender binary, gender roles, how various cultures view gender differently, gender markers, correct pronouns, having discussions around gender identity with loved ones, friends, or co-workers. There are a lot of issues that can come with exploring gender identity. I recognize that there are many sides to this concept and work with my clients to provide them a safe space to explore issues connected to gender, regardless of how they identify.

My area of expertise and training is working with gender outlaws, outsiders, rebels, and pioneers. Wherever you are in our gender journey, and whatever space you take up on the gender spectrum I am here to support you. My approach is ICATH informed, I provide letters for pay-what-you-can without requiring ongoing treatment, and I also provide resources for ICATH providers as part of my complimentary 30 minute consultations.

Nicole provides a compassionate, affirming space for clients exploring gender identity. She understands the challenges of self-discovery, societal pressures, and transitioning, offering support tailored to each individual's journey. Using a trauma-informed, strengths-based approach, she helps clients process emotions, build self-acceptance, and navigate dysphoria or identity shifts. Her goal is to create a safe, validating environment where clients can embrace their authentic selves.

As a therapist, I have supported many clients in exploring their gender identity, finding ways to affirm their unique identity and support them through medical gender affirmation if desired. I provide surgical assessments if needed/wanted, support with name changes and other aspects of affirming one's identity. I believe in an informed consent model of care and work to affirm and validate your needs. I have also trained many medical and mental health providers in gender-affirming care.

I am a trans-identified therapist who has extensive experience with trans-affirming practices and enjoys supporting people through exploration of their identity and living into gender euphoria, whatever that means for you.