The Gottman Method is a therapeutic approach to couples therapy that includes a thorough assessment of the relationship and integrates the research-based intervention, the Sound Relationship House Theory, into treatment. The method (and Sound Relationship House Theory) is based on the research findings of John Gottman’s in depth studies of married couples. The Gottman Method emphasizes the importance of building a strong “friendship system,” believing that investing energy in building a positive connection and knowledge of each other’s inner worlds will make your relationship more fulfilling, and will also make it more resilient to weathering storms. The Sound Relationship House Theory, a fundamental part of the Gottman Method, describes the essential building blocks of marital intimacy for building a lasting and healthy relationship (it includes things like managing conflict and creating shared meaning). Some common issues that the Gottman Method addresses include frequent conflicts or fighting, poor communication, sexual difficulties, infidelity and financial problems, among others. Think this approach might be right for you? Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s Gottman Method experts today.
Couples Counseling is where both parties start the process of building a foundation of mutual respect and desire to intentionally hear one another. You don’t have to be in crisis in your relationship to desire to have the opportunity to work on communication around finances, shared responsibility, transition to parenting, intimacy, conflict- you name it, we’ve worked on it before in couples therapy.
— The Couch Therapy, Psychotherapist in Colleyville, TXI utilize Gottman Method with couples in order to ensure couples have tangible research based coping skills to improve their relationship quickly and effectively.
— Anita Woods, Mental Health Counselor in Jacksonville, FLCompleted Level 1 and 2 in Gottman Method Couple Therapy
— Erica Garcia, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Ann Arbor, MILevel 1 and 2 trained through the Gottman Institute
— Sherri Davidson, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Marysville, WAGottman Method Couples Therapy uses 50 years of research on communication in relationships to help clients hear/understand each other, move past conflicts and misunderstandings, and develop greater intimacy, trust, and commitment. This method works to help you learn the most effective, concrete tools that you can have for the rest of your life so that your relationship gets better and better over time.
— Eva Belzil, Marriage & Family Therapist in Fort Collins, COMy approach to therapy incorporates the Gottman Method, grounded in evidence-based practices for enhancing relationships. Having completed Level 1 training and currently furthering my expertise, I focus on helping couples build stronger connections, improve communication, and manage conflict effectively. By integrating these principles, I aim to foster healthy, resilient relationships that thrive on mutual respect and understanding.
— Johann Ortizo, Psychotherapist in Los Alamitos, CAI am currently a Level 2 Gottman practitioner. The Gottman approach includes a thorough assessment of the couple relationship and integrates research-based interventions to help couples cultivate healthy lasting relationships.
— Paula Kirsch, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Ferndale, MII am being trained in the Gottman Method to assist couples in developing friendship, conflict management, and creation of shared meaning. I help couples transform negative ways they communicate with positive interactions to help heal past resentments. The Gottman Method includes, "interventions designed to increase closeness and intimacy are used to improve friendship, deepen emotional connection, and create changes which enhances the couples shared goals."
— Caitlin Ruby Miller, Licensed Professional Counselor in Northbrook, ILIn my work with couples, the Gottman Method is central to my approach. I adapt their research, theory, and findings to work with LGBTQ+ and CNM couples.
— Sarah Malavenda, Psychotherapist in Chicago, ILI use Gottman, a research-based approach to strengthen relationships (marriages and couples). Using proven techniques, I help couples improve communication, deepen emotional connection, and navigate conflict effectively. I tailor interventions to each couple's unique needs, fostering trust and intimacy. Committed to ongoing education, I stay updated on the latest Gottman strategies to provide effective, evidence-based relationship support.
— Rosalyn Bowie, Licensed Professional Counselor in Arlington, TXI am being trained in the Gottman Method to assist couples in developing friendship, conflict management, and creation of shared meaning. I help couples transform negative ways they communicate with positive interactions to help heal past resentments. The Gottman Method includes, "interventions designed to increase closeness and intimacy are used to improve friendship, deepen emotional connection, and create changes which enhances the couples shared goals. Relapse prevention is also addressed."
— Caitlin Ruby Miller, Licensed Professional Counselor in Northbrook, ILGottman Method Couples Therapy uses 50 years of research on communication in relationships to help clients hear/understand each other, move past conflicts and misunderstandings, and develop greater intimacy, trust, and commitment.
— Maggie Dungan, Marriage & Family Therapist in Fort Collins, COI have completed Gottman training and work with relationship dynamics from the perspective of the Sound Relationship House lens. When asked Dr. Gottman stated he never had nonmonogamous relationships last long enough to study, fortunately I have that experience. I also utilize attachment theory and positive psychology approaches to relationships, building and supporting each other through strengths to growth.
— Love Let Out , PLLC, Licensed Professional Counselor in Austin, TXI am trained in Gottman Method therapy at level 3 and have worked with couples from this model since 2015. I love that Gottman Method is research based and has 40 years of practical application behind it's methodology and interventions. I use the Gottman Relationship Checkup with couples and meet with them both together and individually throughout the course of therapy. There are specific tools I use that help couples have a better relationship from day one of our work together. We practice these tools in session and work through the bumps so it's easier to implement at home.
— Heather Seguin, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in , CAI am a Level 3 Trained Gottman Therapist working towards certification. The Gottman Method, from my experience, is one of the most effective modalities in helping couples resolve significant and long-lasting problematic areas in their relationship.
— Larry Green, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Gainesville, FLI am a Level 2 trained Gottman therapist.
— Elisa Colera, Licensed Professional Counselor in Houston, TXI am trained in Gottman levels 1,2 and 3 of the Gottman method of couple's counseling. In addition, I've completed their training in affairs and trauma as well as their couples in recovery program. I am a seven principles of making a marriage work educator as well.
— kandee love, Sex Therapist in Oswego, ILUsing Gottman’s research, your relationship therapist will show you the tools for truly hearing your partner and working toward understanding through a compassionate and empathic lens. First, you will learn about the Four Horseman that can be so detrimental to the relationship. Then you will learn how to combat these harmful ways of interacting with suggestions from Gottman’s toolbox. You will learn to see your partner as a teammate again and trust that they have your best interest in mind.
— The Better You Institute, Therapist in Philadelphia, PA