Gottman Method

The Gottman Method is a therapeutic approach to couples therapy that includes a thorough assessment of the relationship and integrates the research-based intervention, the Sound Relationship House Theory, into treatment. The method (and Sound Relationship House Theory) is based on the research findings of John Gottman’s in depth studies of married couples. The Gottman Method emphasizes the importance of building a strong “friendship system,” believing that investing energy in building a positive connection and knowledge of each other’s inner worlds will make your relationship more fulfilling, and will also make it more resilient to weathering storms. The Sound Relationship House Theory, a fundamental part of the Gottman Method, describes the essential building blocks of marital intimacy for building a lasting and healthy relationship (it includes things like managing conflict and creating shared meaning). Some common issues that the Gottman Method addresses include frequent conflicts or fighting, poor communication, sexual difficulties, infidelity and financial problems, among others. Think this approach might be right for you? Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s Gottman Method experts today.

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The Gottman Method is a popular and evidence-based approach to couples counseling developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. It is grounded in extensive research on couples' interactions and aims to help couples improve their relationships, resolve conflicts, and build lasting connections.

— Alex Osias, Psychotherapist in Boulder, CO

I specialize in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, focusing on strengthening relationships through improved communication, conflict resolution, and emotional intimacy. Using research-based tools, I help couples build trust, manage disagreements constructively, and deepen their emotional connection. Whether navigating challenges or simply seeking to enhance your bond, I provide a supportive environment to foster lasting, meaningful change and a healthier, more fulfilling partnership.

— Haley Campbell, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Olympia, WA
 

Completed Levels 1 and 2 Clinical Training of the Gottman Method Couples Therapy

— Philip Gnilka, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in Las Vegas, NV

I have completed level 3 Gottman Couples Therapy Training.

— Lisa Caprioli, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Cary, NC

This was developed by John and Julie Gottman who are renowned couple's therapy experts. The method works by creating a deep intimacy between the two with a strong foundation of knowing and understanding one another and releasing ineffective ways of communicating and interacting. It increases awareness around common relationship pitfalls and create balance, equality, and friendship in even the most stale of marriages.

— Darcy Holm, Counselor in ,
 

The Gottman Method was developed by John and Julie Gottman and is the result of over 40 years of research into relationship success. Interventions are based on this research and designed to strengthen the areas of friendship, conflict management, and creation of shared meaning.

— Sheila Kelly, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Torrance, CA

The Gottman Method is a specific form of couples counseling that addresses unhealthy conflict management and communication styles and helps couples to improve their intimacy, love, and respect for each other. The Gottman Method offers guided tools to assess the current state of your relationship and then together we create actionable steps to get you where you want to be in your partnership.

— LISA TARRACH, Marriage & Family Therapist in , WA
 

In my work with couples, the Gottman Method is central to my approach. I adapt their research, theory, and findings to work with LGBTQ+ and CNM couples.

— Sarah Malavenda, Psychotherapist in Chicago, IL
 

I have completed level three of the Clinical Trainings from The Gottman Institute in Seattle and lead couples workshops all over San Diego to help couples maximize their friendship, increase their conflict management skills and create shared meaning for their relationship.

— Grayson Wallen, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in Encinitas, CA

Completed Level 1 and 2 in Gottman Method Couple Therapy

— Erica Garcia, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Ann Arbor, MI
 

I successfully completed Levels 1 and 2 training through the Gottman Institute

— Sherri Davidson, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Marysville, WA

I am Gottman level one trained clinician. This work can be done individually or in couples work. The content is also applicable to new families with new or additional children in helping the parents communicate in a healthy and effect ways during this time of change and transition in their lives. I am certified in the Bringing Baby Home™ curriculum which can be explored individually. Gottman work can also be applied in grief and loss challenges.

— Audrianna Gurr, Licensed Professional Counselor in Portland, OR
 

The goals of Gottman Method Couples Therapy are to disarm conflicting verbal communication; increase intimacy, respect, and affection; remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy; and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship. Interventions are designed to help couples strengthen their relationships in three primary areas: friendship, This is a free quiz to help get an idea of your relationship connection. Gottmanconnect.com/quiz-stage

— Amy Studer, Licensed Professional Counselor in , MO

The goals of Gottman Method Couples Therapy are to disarm conflicting verbal communication; increase intimacy, respect, and affection; remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy; and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship.

— Noelle Benach, Counselor in Baltimore, MD
 

In my work with couples, I use the Gottman Method Couples Therapy.

— Tomoko Iimura, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in San Antonio, TX

I will teach you and your partner skills and tools based in science so you can feel confidant in conflict and clear your communication.

— Linnea Logas, Therapist in Minneapolis, MN