Polyamorous and Open Relationships

Even though they both fall under the umbrella of consensual non-monogamy, polyamory and open relationships are two very different things. Polyamory means having multiple romantic relationships at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. An open relationship is a relationship where the parties are free to take new partners. Whatever form of non-monogamy you practice or are interested in exploring, you and your partner(s) will have to navigate things like boundaries, safe sex, and jealousy. If you are running into issues or roadblocks, seeing a qualified mental health professional provides a safe and supportive space to discuss your concerns and improve communication skills. Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s polyamorous and open relationships experts today.

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This is something that is much more mainstream and open than it used to be and yet many people don't understand the philosophy behind it. I must admit, I struggled with that myself until someone I cared about very much shared with me that their relationship orientation was poly. I then felt the need to educate myself and learn, and discovered that there's a need for support in the poly community. I'm more than happy to discuss and help you navigate!

— Melanie Collins, Counselor in Overland Park, KS

Also as a member and ally to this community I want folx to know that there is a nonjudgmental and open space to be heard when it comes to poly and enm life.

— Melisa Medalle, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist
 

Whether your involved in or wanting to explore an ethical non monogamous relationship, as a couple or solo I will help not only answer but ask questions that will guide you and have you better equiped for any bumps that lay ahead. There are plenty of informative books on this topic, together we will figure out a course that is tailored to you.

— Gwen Lotery, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Santa Monica, CA

I am experienced in supporting people who have or are questioning opening their relationship.

— Michael Zwizanski, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
 

Originally inspired by Dr. Ruth Westheimer, I knew I wanted to be a sex therapist someday. I just didn't know it was possible. After graduation, I learned that I could specialize in sex therapy! So I did! As a graduate of U of M's Sexual Health Certificate Program, and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I welcome working with people in non-traditional relationships, whether they be open, polyam, or "monogamish." I "get you" and honor your path!

— Paula Kirsch, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Ferndale, MI

Non-traditional relationships offer the opportunity to maximize our interpersonal connectedness. I seek to support folks in polyamorous and open relationships by embracing the difficult emotions that often arise and processing them as strengths.

— Liz Silverman, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Brooklyn, NY
 

In my work with couples, I work with folks looking for support with relationship issues within consensually non-monogamous relationships and related to exploring non-monogamy.

— Sarah Malavenda, Psychotherapist in Chicago, IL

I work with individuals, couples and groups to explore their experiences with attachment, love, romance, sex, pleasure and anything else in between. I support sex workers and center kinky, queer, disabled, fat, and trans* bodies.

— Kai Morales, Associate Professional Counselor in San Diego, CA
 

Have been studying relationships for 30 years. I have done a deep dive in polyamorous relationships, from a professional and a personal standpoint. I get it. No judgments or shame here. I understand the complex nature of poly. I know the benefits of these relationships and also the pitfalls. Good solid communication, trust and self-love are needed for these relationships to thrive.

— Monte Miller, Psychologist in Austin, TX

Whether your involved in or wanting to explore an ethical non monogamous relationship, as a couple or solo I will help not only answer but ask questions that will guide you and have you better equiped for any bumps that lay ahead. Together we will figure out a course that is tailored and best for you. At any time any agreemnets can be altered, lets talk about it.

— Gwen Lotery, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Santa Monica, CA
 

I have experience with and enjoy providing therapy to the polyamorous / non-monogamous community & would love to work with you individually or in relationship. Any fellow Multiamory podcast fans out there?

— Kristen Weick, Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Winter Park, FL

We treat individuals and couples in both traditional and non-traditional relationships. Our staff is knowledgeable on both personal and professional levels with non-traditional relationship styles, and loves supporting those looking to create security and ease in how they relate.

— Barefoot and Balanced Therapy, Licensed Professional Counselor in Clackamas, OR
 

Poly, ENM, CNM individuals, couples+ and those that have been surprised by their partner's desire to be poly, will find affirming care in my therapy room. Beyond this, also kink, swinging, and other forms of adult sexual practices often defined as outside of "conventional"

— Ami Lynch, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Arlington, VA

I practice Ethical Non-Monogamy and understand your need for an alternative to the current socio-cultural norms.

— Carl Price, Licensed Professional Counselor Associate in San Antonio, TX
 

Thinking about entering a polyamorous or non-monogamous relationship? Together we can work on building the communication skills to discuss with your partner(s) the ins and outs of being poly or ethically non-monogamous. With that, comes feelings of jealousy, distrust, insecurities, etc. We can work towards finding ways to be open and honest, genuine, and compassionate towards your partner(s).

— Miguel Lopez, Licensed Professional Counselor in Fort Worth, TX

Love is expansive. I work with folks who are open to all ways of relating to others and seek to deepen their own understanding of their own needs and limits.

— Allison Kent, Clinical Social Worker in Los Angeles, CA
 

I have been involved in the swinger lifestyle ("The LIfestyle") for several years now. I have helped numerous people understand and navigate the

— Monte Miller, Psychologist in Austin, TX

I come with expert knowledge of what it is to be polyamorous/ENM and the unique challenges that can come with this relationship structure. Whether you need assistance processing through broken boundaries, dismantling couple’s privilege, or letting go of the relationship escalator, I’m here to help. I have lead support groups and guided folks through the tender process of discovering ENM for themselves as well as completed trainings and clinical articles about treating polyamorous folks.

— Kate Manser, Licensed Professional Counselor in Philadelphia, PA
 

I specialize in providing therapy and support for individuals and couples in polyamorous and open relationships, helping navigate the unique dynamics, communication, and challenges that come with non-monogamous relationships.

— April Mollner, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Woodland Hills, CA

I help individuals and couples navigate the complexities and joys of non-monogamous, open, and polyamorous relationships. Clear goals, boundaries, trust, respect, consent, and communication are vital but not sufficient aspects to success in these partnerships. Whether you are newly considering opening up your relationship or have been a part of the community for some time, I’d be happy to help you explore, create, and thrive in the relationship structure that best suits your needs.

— Eric van der Voort, Sex Therapist in San Diego, CA