Relationship Counseling

Relationship counseling provides a space to explore how past experiences shape the dynamics of your current relationships. By understanding individual histories and their impact on communication, trust, and connection, we can uncover patterns that may be influencing how you relate to one another. Whether in monogamous or polyamorous relationships, my goal is to help you address unresolved issues, foster deeper understanding, and create healthier, more mindful ways of relating."

I offer relationship counseling for romantic partners and multi-partner relationships. My training includes coursework and specialization in couples therapy, as well as the unique challenges faced by non-monogamous, kinky, and other alternative sexuality communities.

I am trained and have experience working with all types of relationships. Communication work is key to any healthy relationship and in my opinion is the cornerstone of relationship therapy.

I’m a relationship expert because I’ve dedicated my career to understanding and transforming the dynamics that connect us to each other. With a Ph.D. in marriage and family therapy, I have extensive training in how relationships shape us and influence our well-being. Over the years, I’ve helped couples and individuals navigate the complexities of relationships—from communication breakdowns and recurring conflicts to attachment wounds and patterns that keep people feeling stuck.

I have been working as a coach and therapist with non-monogamous/polyamorous groupings since 2009. For relationship sessions, I work with both dyads as well as larger polycules.

Inundated with the assumptions, attitudes, and assessments of others, it can feel impossible to sort out what feels intuitively right for you and your partner(s), your family member(s), or your friend(s). Agreements and promises can be made as easily as feelings can change and get hurt, the pain of which can foreclose any hope of processing and surviving such ruptures. You do not have to remain stuck, give up, or figure it out alone.

We may work on communication & relationship skills, explore the root of our trauma responses and attachment, practice working across difference, and/or discover ways back to connection. I specialize work with couples who identify at the intersections of LGBTQ+, polyamorous/nonmonogomous and/or neurodivergence.

Addressing relationships in therapy can look like couples counseling or individual. Either way we think addressing the relationships in counseling are so important. They often can cause things like depression and anxiety without even knowing. Our approach can address both!

Relationship counseling helps individuals and couples build stronger, healthier connections. Whether you're navigating conflict, communication issues, or deepening intimacy, evidence-based approaches foster lasting change. I've trained in several proven couples therapy models and authored two books for couples. Whether you're seeking support as an individual or a couple, relationship counseling can help your romantic or other relationships thrive with greater understanding, trust, and connection

Training in couples, marriage, and family therapy. Working with relationships in the context of group. Working with business and professional relationships

My additional graduate training in couple and family therapy has given me the special insight and skills with which I have competed hundreds of pre-marital, couple and family therapy sessions for over 12 years.

"Anissa really took the time to understand our unique issues...all of us felt really heard and we were able to finally hear and understand each other better and find new ways to communicate and function day to day that have really improved things in our home." ---RD

I specialize in relationship counseling with a focus on consensual non-monogamy, LGBTQIA+ partnerships, and kink/BDSM dynamics. With over 15 years of experience, I’ve helped individuals and couples navigate complex relationship structures, improve communication, and foster deeper connections. My inclusive, non-judgmental approach creates a safe space for clients to explore and strengthen their unique relationships.

Treating relationships is my speciality. I hold a graduate degree in Relationship and Family Counseling. Certified as an emotionally focused therapist (EFT), I am certified as a Gottman level I and II clinician as well as trained as a Prepare Enrich Premaritial trainer and consultant.

I use Prepare/Enrich for premarital counseling and those looking to establish a healthy foundation for their future together.

Both the man and the woman need to be equally heard and understood. I focus a lot on how deeply our insecurities and selfishness play a role in how we deal with our spouse. I teach the basics of what love is and how to communicate well. I help uncover the subtle and not so subtle problems of pride and selfishness, but in a loving, but direct manner.

I studied psychology and sociology as my undergraduate majors and got my master's degree from Drexel University, Master of Family Therapy. My educational background and additional trainings I've attended throughout the course of my career (EFT, Prepare/Enrich premarital counseling assessment certification and treating affairs and trauma training), are all for relationships and to better provide support for my adult individuals and couples coming to my therapy room for relationship issues.

It is difficult to be content and at peace when there is tension or strife in your romantic partnership(s). I can teach you skills to improve communication, reduce conflict, and enhance connection. I have training and experience in working with consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, and polyamory. As a certified sex therapist, I offer help with navigating common sexual concerns, such as desire discrepancy, sexual dysfunction, and kink / BDSM.